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Bi-Gender SexualityIn some respects, bi-genders have an easier time of it when it comes to their own orientation - compared to the tribulations their partners sometimes go through. Gender doesn't define who you loveThe person remains the same it is only the persona that changes. Whether the outward expression of a bi-gender is en homme, or en femme, it doesn't change their inner orientation when it comes to partners. Cultural BiasOn our "ultra male - infra female" spectrum, I have deliberately excluded "heterosexuality" as a quality that defines extreme femaleness or maleness. Having said that, it would be naive to suggest that there are no gender biases when it comes to cultural expectations of sexuality. Like it or not, single or straight, there is a very strong cultural bias in our society that suggests genetic males should exclusively have sex with genetic females. Who you love can influence gender expression.Some bi-genders do indeed see their spiritual gender as being intimately connected to their sexual orientation. By example, a lesbian F2M may find the expression of sex en-homme enormously and profoundly satisfying. Since it allows 'him' to both express the spiritual self and to take full advantage of cultural stereotypes (aggression, dominance etc.) in a largely guilt-free environment. This "pseudo heterosexuality" can be not only enjoyable but very liberating for both partners. For the straight F2M the experience of "pseudo homosexuality" can also be enlightening. Transsexuality is very rare.For a rare number of bi-genders, "pseudo sexuality" feels so dishonest as an expression of self that it is unbearable. True gender dysphoria is not simply feeling ill at ease in ones birth gender, but being unable to function unless that birth gender is rejected.
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